Whether you should buy a sex doll depends on your desires and goals.
Sex dolls are used either with sex as a physical purpose, or they are used for emotional support: as companionship, a cuddle partner, or an alternative to a partner.
You should not buy a sex doll if you have a need for mutual communication; in that case, it is better to talk with a psychologist, a friend, or an actual partner.
What is the purpose of buying a sex doll?
The purpose determines whether you should buy a sex doll and which variant is suitable.
If you are looking for sex, companionship, and presence in the home, or if you are no longer interested in women, then a sex doll is a valid option.
If you are looking for a replacement for a partner, a torso sex doll is definitely not sufficient. When desiring a partner, the physical cuddling aspect is much more important, and you want to imitate reality as closely as possible. Therefore, in this case, it is best to choose a full-body sex.
When should you buy a full-body sex doll?
You buy a full-body sex doll if you want to use the doll not only for sex, but also as companionship or presence in the home, where you want to be able to cuddle the doll. A full sex doll therefore has broader usability and is not only meant for sex.
When should you buy a torso sex doll or masturbator?
You buy a torso sex doll or masturbator if the goal is purely to satisfy your sexual desires. Torso sex dolls or masturbators are smaller, more robust (less likely to break and with fewer delicate parts), cheaper, and more ergonomic.
Should you buy a sex doll?
Buy a full-body sex doll if you are looking for a combination of companionship or presence in the home, with the possibility of cuddling and sex.
Buy a torso sex doll or masturbator if you want nothing but sex.
When should you not buy a sex doll?
If you are looking for mutual communication, you should not buy a sex doll.
If you are looking for someone with whom you can communicate mutually in order to discuss your feelings, it is better to contact a psychologist. Sex dolls do not talk back and are therefore not suitable conversation partners.
Sex dolls can function as a listening ear or silent companion, similar to how pets or a stuffed toy can. If you do not require communication, a sex doll can still be an option.
Can you use a sex doll for losing your virginity?
To lose your virginity, you need another person; sex with a sex doll falls under the category of masturbation. A sex doll cannot take someone’s virginity.
Sex with a sex doll can help you get used to the idea of sex with another person. However, sex with a sex doll lacks one major factor: mutual communication and interaction.
There are various reasons why someone might still choose a sex doll for their first time.
- Orgasm control
Sex with a sex doll is in principle not comparable to sex with a person. But if you are nervous and want to practice, a sex doll can serve as training material to, among other things, build stamina and delay orgasm.
- Gaining experience
How a sexual encounter unfolds differs from person to person. You do not gain experience by watching pornography, because you are not participating. Sex is a dynamic experience and unique to each person. You can therefore gain experience with a sex doll, but it is not comparable to the dynamics of real sex, because no two sexual encounters are the same and communication and feedback are missing.
- Sex feels too exciting
If you find sex too exciting or overwhelming, the best thing you can do is build experience. Sex stops being exciting once you have had sex a thousand times. Sex is never perfect, accept that it never will be, and don’t worry about it. Most importantly, make sure your first sexual partner is someone you trust. Sex is always exciting the first time, just like almost everything you do for the first time.
We can say that any form of preparation or gaining experience, with or without a sex doll, is better than having no experience before sex with a real person. Sex dolls are always an addition to your sex life, but they can almost never fully replace a partner due to the lack of communication.
