Sex with sex dolls feels very realistic thanks to replicated internal vaginal ridges, soft buttocks, and round breasts. Place the sex doll in various positions such as doggy style or missionary, and add a vaginal heater to bring the doll up to temperature, and you will have a lifelike sexual experience.
Having sex with a sex doll is a great experience, both physically and emotionally.
However, it is important to make sure you have a high-quality sex doll, follow the proper instructions, and apply enough variation to keep things exciting.
On Reddit, experiences vary: some people think it is fantastic, while others are not fully convinced. Take a look at what others on Reddit think.
How does it feel to kiss and touch a sex doll?
Kissing a sex doll can be a very realistic experience. The face and lips are soft, and the mouth can be opened so you can insert your tongue or genitals and feel the texture. Some dolls are even equipped with a tongue and teeth and have a deeper throat for extra sensations.
Modern TPE and silicone sex dolls are designed to feel extremely realistic. They have a soft and lifelike skin texture. The face and body parts are modeled after real women and can even be customized to your preferences. Whether you want larger breasts or a fuller butt, you can have them exactly the way you want.
The breasts of a sex doll are soft, round, and very malleable. They are fitted with soft, firm nipples. Some dolls also have large, firm buttocks that you can enjoy.
What did a sex doll owner think himself?
We came across the response below on the social media platform Reddit, where the owner was asked to share his first experience. The text below was translated from English:
“I remember it so clearly, the day she arrived.
I received a text saying the delivery driver was on the way, and four hours later she was at my door. Those were the most exciting four hours of my life: my heart was racing, I almost got diarrhea from the excitement, dry mouth, sweaty palms…
The first thing I did when I opened the box was just stare at her. For at least five hours. She looked so realistic that I felt like, the moment I touched her, she would kick me in the balls and run off with my car keys haha. xD
Only in the first few days after placing the order did I have a bit of regret. But then I did the math and realized how much I was spending on prostitutes (1,500 per month), so I started to see it as a mid-term investment.
The packaging is quite discreet. Postal workers handle so many packages that they really do not think about what is inside a particular box. And even if they somehow did know (this is certainly not the first one they have seen), they would think, ‘oh, okay,’ and move on with their work.
And if they do try to make small talk about what is inside or why it is so heavy, you can just say it is IKEA furniture or fitness equipment, or something else that sounds logical.
How it feels depends on the material. TPE dolls are firmer and a bit oilier than silicone dolls. They all have a certain smell that disappears a few hours after unpacking.
In my opinion, it feels about 80% realistic, except for the lack of body warmth and the conversation after sex.
The vagina feels gummy-like and soft, hard to describe, but it feels good. The only things missing compared to a real woman are moisture and warmth.
The breasts feel almost the same.
PRO TIP: If you want sex to feel more realistic, buy a perfume you like and lightly spray her hair or the bed with it. Not on the body.” (1)
How do you make the experience as realistic as possible?
You make the experience as realistic as possible by engaging all your senses as much as you can:
- Your eyes: dress your doll in a way you find beautiful and sexy, leave something to the imagination with lingerie or a bikini. Never buy a doll you do not find attractive.
- Your ears: play an erotic video or listen with headphones to your favorite actor or actress.
- Your nose: the scent of women’s perfume works wonders, as described above.
- Touch: warm the doll beforehand, in the laundry room near the dryer, with an electric blanket (not warmer than 37 degrees Celsius), or with a vaginal heater.
Vaginal sex
This is one of the most common ways people enjoy their sex dolls. Every female sex doll we sell comes with a fully functional vagina. With many dolls, you can choose between a removable vagina (similar to a pocket pussy or Fleshlight) or a fixed vagina. The depth of each vaginal opening is listed on our website. Make sure you choose a doll that is suitable for your penis length.
All of our dolls are made of silicone or TPE; both materials feel exceptionally realistic. The vaginas are designed for intense stimulation and are shaped to feel like you are having sex with a real person. The process works in a similar way to what you would expect. You place the doll in the desired position, penetrate the doll, and continue as you normally would. The combination of friction and pressure feels absolutely amazing, according to our customers.
We are often asked whether it is possible to climax inside the dolls. The answer is yes. This is a common practice, and our dolls are specifically designed for it.
Anal sex with a sex doll
Many people indeed fantasize about anal sex. The good news is that our sex dolls can also provide that experience. The anal opening of the doll feels realistic, opens easily, and offers a tight sensation. Having anal sex with a sex doll is normal, healthy, and can be very pleasurable for many people.
It can sometimes be difficult to find a partner who is open to anal sex, let alone someone who also enjoys receiving it. With our sex dolls, you do not have to worry about that. Both our male and female dolls have functional options in this area. Our product engineers have worked hard to design the dolls in such a way that they offer an amazing experience, exactly the way you want it.
Oral sex with a sex doll
Depending on the type of TPE sex doll you have and what you are looking for, oral sex can be satisfying. Some dolls are designed to perform deep oral sex, and with some warmth and lubricant they can feel like a real mouth.
Is a blowjob from a sex doll the same as a blowjob from a person? The answer is no, they are not the same. A sex doll will not simulate the same suction as a real person, and in general they are more focused on vaginal and anal sex. Both have their advantages and disadvantages.
Nevertheless, receiving oral sex from a sex doll is very pleasurable. Of course, you will need lubricant, but you never have to worry about your doll gagging, getting a stiff neck, or how she will react when you climax.
The right lubricant for a sex doll
To prevent skin damage and to optimally enjoy vaginal, anal, or oral penetration with your penis, it is important to apply sufficient lubricant to the opening.
Most people choose to use lubricant to make their sexual experiences easier and more enjoyable.
If you do so, always choose a water-based lubricant. Oil-based or silicone-based lubricants will damage your doll and cause stains. Water-based lubricant is strongly recommended because it is more hygienic, easy to clean, and will not spread everywhere, unlike silicone lubricants.
Apply 5 mL of lubricant to each area you want to penetrate. Too much lubricant can quickly become sticky and messy. Here is a useful tip: if you think you need a bit more lubricant after a while, try adding a small amount of warm water. This can reactivate the lubricant and is often all you need to continue your experience.
Some people prefer a drier approach and often use powder for this. This increases friction but creates a very different sexual sensation.
Experimenting with sex dolls
You can experiment with various positions, sexual activities, and special lubricants. In addition, you can change outfits, wigs, and sometimes even the proportions of your sex doll. By changing these elements, you can ensure that each experience remains fresh and exciting.
Although the reasons for buying a sex doll may vary, most customers choose these dolls because of their realistic and sexual companionship. They are designed with physical sex in mind. To ensure you have a great experience and that your sex doll lasts a long time, it is important to follow some best cleaning practices. This allows you to enjoy your sex doll to the fullest and get years of pleasure from it.
For the ultimate sexual experience, you should keep in mind that you may need to invest some money. High-quality, lifelike sex dolls are not cheap. In fact, they can be quite expensive, with prices often exceeding €1,000. It is important to realize that this is a long-term investment that you will enjoy for a long time. There are also sex dolls under €1,000; these are torso sex dolls.
Top-quality sex dolls are so realistic that the difference between sex with a doll and sex with a human can sometimes be hard to distinguish. It is an experience you can cherish and derive a great deal of satisfaction from.
Advantages of sex with a sex doll
First of all, it is much easier to experiment with a sex doll. Your real human partner may not be very open to certain ideas such as anal sex or different positions. With a sex doll, you will not encounter such problems. A sex doll will not say no to you. In fact, she will not object to anything you decide to do.
If you are in a relationship, a sex doll can also offer benefits. Adding a sex doll to your erotic life can be a fresh and exciting experience. It can even serve as good practice before trying a threesome. Either way, it is a win-win situation.
How does it feel to have sex with a sex doll? It feels great and is definitely worth trying.
How realistic can we offer our dolls?
Below you can watch the production video of Lily, a silicone doll with an Asian look. Pay attention to the details; they speak for themselves.
Sources:
- Post with a comment on Reddit from a customer who shared his experience of his first sex doll purchase (not from Monica Moments), accessed on 10/12/2025. https://www.reddit.com/r/SexDolls/comments/1phuha6/what_does_it_feel_like_to_own_and_have_sex_with_a/?share_id=R9-FC4uWWu3wp6vQjb_kS&
